Are Men Only Attracted to Needy Women?? - LOL

Are Men Only Attracted to Needy Women?? - LOL
Current mood: amused
Category: Life

It Depends on the Definition of "Need"
Fri Jun 30, 12:06 PM ET

DEAR MARGO: I am a 38-year-old successful female who is emotionally and financially secure. I have been told that I am very attractive and intimidate men. I would like to get married but am thought to be too independent.

In the past, I just thought that these men were needy. However, I was having a group discussion in mixed company where a man said it seems like women don't need men anymore.

I feel as though women were forced to become independent and support themselves. Now, men seem to be threatened by our success. Do I need to act like I "need" men to find my soulmate? I abhor needy females, yet I do want to share my life with someone with the ultimate goal of getting married and perhaps having children.

What is ironic is that I would walk away from my career for the right man and situation. In many ways, I feel like I would rather be alone than have to acquiesce to a man's ego. -- MS. INDEPENDENT

DEAR MS.: As to your question of whether women need men, some do . . . some don't. I will tell you this: You, me and countless other women have been considered "intimidating," but only to a certain kind of man.

As for putting on the persona of someone who "needs" a man, don't try to act the part of a submissive, subordinate cupcake; it is too hard, and you would become disgusted with yourself.

Believe it or not, there are many men who cannot function with a clinging vine. Trust me, there are men out there whose personalities are complementary to yours. -- Margo, autonomously

(- but where IS this mystery man??)

Well....all I know is what I see - men without question prefer the women who whine about everything - over analyze everything in the relationship and dont seem to have much to think about except spreading their legs.

Men prefer women who are needy and pathetic - Drama Queens who pick the relationship apart. I guess it makes them feel needed. That appears to be attractive to men.